Ross | Mr. Automotive Compliance Professional
GMAT 710, GPA 3.7
Wharton | Mr. Digi-Transformer
GMAT 680, GPA 4
Stanford GSB | Ms. 2+2 Tech Girl
GRE 333, GPA 3.95
Stanford GSB | Ms. Healthcare Operations To General Management
GRE 700, GPA 7.3
Chicago Booth | Ms. CS Engineer To Consultant
GMAT 720, GPA 3.31
Kenan-Flagler | Mr. Engineer In The Military
GRE 310, GPA 3.9
Chicago Booth | Mr. Oil & Gas Leader
GMAT 760, GPA 6.85/10
Stanford GSB | Mr. Seeking Fellow Program
GMAT 760, GPA 3
Wharton | Mr. Real Estate Investor
GMAT 720, GPA 3.3
Cornell Johnson | Ms. Chef Instructor
GMAT 760, GPA 3.3
Harvard | Mr. Climate
GMAT 720, GPA 3.4
Wharton | Mr. New England Hopeful
GMAT 730, GPA 3.65
Berkeley Haas | Mr. Bangladeshi Data Scientist
GMAT 760, GPA 3.33
Harvard | Mr. Military Banker
GMAT 740, GPA 3.9
Ross | Ms. Packaging Manager
GMAT 730, GPA 3.47
Chicago Booth | Mr. Private Equity To Ed-Tech
GRE 326, GPA 3.4
Harvard | Mr. Gay Singaporean Strategy Consultant
GMAT 730, GPA 3.3
Cornell Johnson | Mr. Electric Vehicles Product Strategist
GRE 331, GPA 3.8
Columbia | Mr. BB Trading M/O To Hedge Fund
GMAT 710, GPA 3.23
Columbia | Mr. Old Indian Engineer
GRE 333, GPA 67%
Harvard | Mr. Athlete Turned MBB Consultant
GMAT 720, GPA 3.4
Ross | Mr. Civil Rights Lawyer
GMAT 710, GPA 3.62
Stanford GSB | Mr. Co-Founder & Analytics Manager
GMAT 750, GPA 7.4 out of 10.0 - 4th in Class
Cornell Johnson | Ms. Environmental Sustainability
GMAT N/A, GPA 7.08
Cornell Johnson | Mr. Trucking
GMAT 640, GPA 3.82
Ross | Mr. Low GRE Not-For-Profit
GRE 316, GPA 74.04% First Division (No GPA)
Harvard | Mr. Marine Pilot
GMAT 750, GPA 3.98

A Check List For B-School Partners

An excerpt from the new book by Mona Bijjani

So You Quit Your Job to Live Life as a B-School Partner for a couple of years… Now What?

After hours of discussions and careful consideration, you’ve quit your job and will join your B-Schooler on a journey. “Do I stay or do I go?”—it’s a question that goes through everyone’s mind when their significant other gets accepted into a top business school.

But first—is everything in order? Have you set yourself up for success? The earlier you prepare, the easier it will be for you to feel at ease: with yourself, in your relationship, and in the B-school community. From talking to Alumni, to brainstorming for the years ahead, below are five ways in which you can set yourself up for a happier and more successful time at B-school.

Brainstorm your year ahead 

What is it that you want to walk out of it with? Jump to the future, to a time that is right after the experience, and ask yourself what it is you would like to have achieved by the end of it. It could be in terms of career, family, health, travel, finances, and/or relationships. When you brainstorm and explore, you will gain more clarity on your thoughts and ideas. This can also help shape your personal goals for the year, as whatever you write down will be your raw thoughts that you can then give structure too.

Mix with people who have been there

Start by asking family and friends if they know any current students or graduates of the B-school in question and connect with them. You can also see if there are any mixers between current and past students that you can attend. These types of meet ups can really prove to be invaluable. Once you are there, look to ask people about the transition into B-school life; the program itself; how they balanced everything and managed their time; as well as the atmosphere of the B-school community. Most of the time, students, partners, and alumni are happy to talk about their experiences. You will find that hours went by and you barely felt it! This will give you a better idea of what B-school entails and how it can possibly affect your life in different aspects, and perhaps what you can do about it.

Create online connections

Most schools have a partner club, and partner clubs are now increasingly a basic feature of B-school life since they have become pivotal to the student community. Do an online search for the relevant B-school partner social media group, and request to join it. Once you are in, observe the threads and join in the conversation when relevant. If you have any worries, here would a good place to voice them out and seek advice. There may also be other networks in which the admin staff from the B-school and partners interact—find out about them and sign up. You can also connect directly with the student life admin staff if you have more administrative concerns.

Create a comfortable living environment

One of the biggest logistical hassles of relocating is the act of moving and finding a place to stay. So it’s important to be practical and realistic about your living arrangements. By creating a comfortable living situation that caters to your needs, you are making your life easier, from the very start. Think about the different resources and amenities that you use on a daily or weekly basis and look for the same in your new area. Some schools have resources that share information about surrounding residential areas, so tap into those too. When you do this in advance, you will be able to somewhat anticipate the things that are going to change in terms of support and resources. This will, in turn, lessen the stress of the move.

Get out of your comfort zone, from now

A large part of business school is about the friendships that form. B-schoolers are looking for authentic relationships. So, before entering the B-school bubble, look to get outside of your comfort zone socially. Start by having a meal or coffee with someone who is dissimilar to you in culture and/or personality, and get to know them. Open a conversation with someone you haven’t met before but constantly see on your daily routines. By expanding your social circle, you will not only get a chance to get to know people who are vastly different from you, but also, by the time you arrive at the beloved B-school, you would have gotten the hang of it.

Hopefully these five pointers will prove helpful in your move to B-school. For more insightful tips, you can check out the guidebook for MBA partners on Amazon (link in bio). Once you’ve taken all the above steps into consideration…Now What?

Well, nowget ready for the ride of your life. 

 

Author Mona Bijjani

Mona Bijjani is a Singapore-based author, entrepreneur and INSEAD MBA candidate. A true third culture kid, she was born in Saudi Arabia, grew up in Lebanon, and has since lived in Europe, the Middle East, and Asia. Her book, The Unofficial Guide to Business School Partner Life, is the first book to be created in this niche genre, a cross between Success Self-Help and Business Education. Tech-geek, forever student and former INSEAD partner, Mona is also a facilitator, developing several workshops and online courses, which you can find at designyourlife.thinkific.com.

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